Pellau Magazine

Personally I'm guilty of a few of these! How about you?

1. Limiting yourself to be loyal to one person isn’t something you want to force, especially when you’d rather have the freedom of doing whatever you want with whomever you want.

2. You refuse to take part in the half-assed, “we’re talking but not like, together” nonsense that commonly takes place these days over actual, clear, labeled, committed relationships.

3. You just got dumped recently and are in the process of rebuilding your existence without theirs.

4. You’re pretty emotionally wobbly and conscious of said instability, so you’d rather not drag someone into your whirlwind of crazy madness. Keeping the storm at bay seems more intelligent than sucking in innocent bystanders.

5. Your life as a man/woman-child is far more enjoyable right now than trying to play house with someone.

6. You stayed single for so long that you just can’t get back out there, in the dating world. You’ve developed a reserved complex and are uncomfortable meeting new people or being the best version of you that early dating often entails.

7. You always want scenarios to be perfect and while that’s a flawed logic, you are aware enough to acknowledge this issue and refrain from being involved with someone until you can accept a blemished relationship.

8. You’re working on loving yourself before trying to invest those types of heavy sentiments towards somebody else.

9. Financial stability or getting established in your career have taken priority over tending to another person.

10. Because you’ve been in a relationship that left a bad taste in your mouth, convincing you that at this particular time being single is absolutely, positively the best option for you.

11. The person you’re in like or love with is involved with someone.

12. It’s impossible to meet people from your couch and perusing around your home, but those are your preferred locations to spend time.

13. You still have feelings for your ex.