Pellau Magazine

Move over, sexting: Celebs and other long-distance lovers turn to Skype to get it on when they're not together. The problem? It's not always easy to have sex via Webcam. Sex therapist Tanja Diamond, author of Beyond Sex: Tantra, tells us how to log on—and get off.
By Meagan Morris

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Write It Down

Before you start, write down 10 or more things you want to "do" with your partner—role play, dirty talk, touching, stripteases, etc.—and send these saucy tips to each other. Then, as things progress, you can each pick a sexy task to do.

Dress the Part

Don't be afraid to get into it! Pretend like he's there and dress up in some sexy lingerie that really puts you in the mood. Don't forget the sexy music—and keep some lube handy, too.

Lighten the Mood

Acknowledge any nerves you have about getting busy over the interwebs. Share a few silly laughs with your guy to lighten the mood. Bonus: Laughing gets the blood flowing and is a turn on!

Just Breathe

Create some tension by gazing into each other's eyes and breathing deeply via the webcam. This heightens the anticipation and gets your mind ready for the sexy times ahead.

Get In Touch With Yourself

Touch yourself slowly—either through manual stimulation or with a few sex toys—and tease him with a little peek-a-boo. Instruct him to do a little striptease and masturbation for your viewing pleasure.