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The importance of trust in a relationship

Trust" the action that can either make a relationship
stronger or break it down to shreds. How many of us
go through life wishing that we can trust that certain
someone? How many of us DO trust but are secretly
being lied and opposed to? Then there's the other
half, the fact that trust doesn't exist in their relationship
but find it fit to live in denial, pretending everything
is all "Honky Dory" when its more "World War".
For this simple banter of rhetoric questions I should
probably state that a relationship does not necessarily
mean boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and
wife partnerships. It can also be a family relationship,
a friendship or even a business relationship. All of
which, lack of trust can cause to crumble like the
Berlin Wall, either gradually or instantaneously.
If life is made up of relationships and trust is the glue
that holds those relationships together, I guess it's
safe to say "trust is the glue of life". During the
course of life, don't we always desire assurance,
peace of mind and crystal clear certainty towards
day to day interactions? With lack of trust these desires
are solely out of reach and can hinder future
relationships because of developing trust issues.
One must be fond of people and trust them and be
trusted if one is not to make a mess of life. If you cannot
trust your partner, then your partner has no respect
for you, themselves or the relationship. But take note this only applies if your partner gives you
a reason not to trust them. Please don't go creating
reasons for you not to trust your partner because
that my friend is another topic. Provoked
paranoia is not the answer. It is important to have
a trustworthy relationship because living in disloyalty,
denial, jealousy and cheating is not the slightest
bit healthy for you nor the relationship. If a
person is not to be trusted the how on earth can
you work with or love them? A relationship is like a
house, there is no use for it if the foundation is unstable...
obviously; lies and uncertainty allows it to
be destined for failure twice as much as a normal
relationship. To say the least, one will not believe
the complications harbouring trust issues can have
only not on life but present and future kinships as
well. Trust issues can
even cause anxiety and
even bad cases of depression
and that my
friend "aint no joke yo..."
Trust is a vital ingredient
in any recipe for a good
relationship. It might be
sometimes a huge risk
and in most instances a
major plus. Although it
may take years to generate itself, the rewards of
living a trustworthy, loyal and stress free relationship
are always fruitful. One must always look for
things to build or rebuild trust in a relationship or
kinship, not look for things deliberately break it
down. Always remember trust is a must if you want
to fulfil trustworthy relationships in certainty.

1 comment:

  1. Gr8 post, gr8 insight so true bout trust being a major plus, it makes a whole world of difference n I'm speaking frm personal experience

    ReplyDelete

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