Pellau Magazine

article by: ASHLEY FERN

Does a person’s astrological sign really say something about his or her dating personality or overall disposition? Many people strongly believe in the stars and what they stand for, and many do not. Regardless, it’s always fun to investigate such a topic and explore it in its entirety.



We’re currently in the cycle of Aquarius, so we are going to take a closer look at the qualities of a person born between January 20 and February 18. Would you want to date someone of this sign? Time to whip out the pros and cons:

Pros
Eclectic Perspective

You don’t want to date a person who cannot see the bigger picture. The ability to understand the grand scheme of things broadens perspective and allows an Aquarius to see where others are coming from. That is a crucial element in any relationship, especially given the fact that compromises must be made in order for any relationship to succeed.

Natural Born Communicator

Communication in any relationship is crucial; without it, there is essentially no hope in succeeding. You need to be able to feel comfortable discussing things with your partner and if he or she are unable to communicate effectively, how do you expect this ever to happen?

Intellectual

Asking questions is the only way to learn new things and gain knowledge. Who wouldn’t want to date a person who wants to learn about everything the world has to offer? An Aquarius is the type to try new things in order to make the most of his or her experiences.

Humanitarian

Besides caring about your relationship, your Aquarius partner cares immensely about others around him or her. An Aquarius is a visionary who loves thinking about what he or she can do to make the world a better place.

Sociable

An Aquarius loves to surround him or herself with a ton of people — most notably, family and friends. It’s a relief when you can bring your counterpart into any situation and not have to worry about babysitting him or her. You can let an Aquarius partner mingle on his or her own and have full confidence in his or her ability to make everyone feel at ease.

Cons
Know-It-All

Don’t try to push your opinion on an Aquarius because he or she won’t give a sh*t. If an Aquarius doesn’t agree with what you have to say, he or she is most certainly not listening to it. They do things their own way and were probably the people who inspired the phrase, “My way or the highway.” Compromises are crucial in relationships, and if you aren’t able to do that, well then I wish you the best of luck on your short-lived fling.

Detached

Do you really want to date someone who is constantly putting up walls? This experience is beyond frustrating and the downfall of many relationships. Be careful falling in love with someone who has little likelihood of letting you in. It’s never a good thing when a person can seem somewhat detached from personal emotions.

Inconsistent

One day they’re happy with you, and the next day, they aren’t. Inconsistency is one of the most frustrating things a person can experience. You may think your partner is reliable, but before you know it, an Aquarius won’t follow through like you expected.

Stubborn

Stubbornness is never an attractive quality. This goes hand-in-hand with the aforementioned characteristic. An Aquarius isn’t willing to see things from another person’s perspective the majority of the time, which can cause a lot of tension and problems in a relationship.

Aloof

Why would you date someone who seemingly just doesn’t care? That sounds like an uphill battle. While an Aquarius is not like this all of the time, he or she can show signs of being aloof, and when it happens, it’s beyond irritating. At times of conflict, this quality can be one of the most detrimental and demeaning attributes a person can display.

Each individual is different, so you really never know what a relationship will be like until you try. Based on this list, however, dating an Aquarius seems like an anxiety-ridden experience.

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