Pellau Magazine: Dating Three Guys to Find the One pt.1

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Juggling multiple men until you find someone special and sparkly sounds reasonable to us. But is it genius—or dangerous?

Ever hear the old adage, "date three to find the one"? If not, you've clearly never met my grandma.

The simple premise—date three men at once to increase your chances of finding the man you'll marry—was something my grandmother swore by (funny, considering I doubt she dated anyone besides my grandfather. Ever.)

But there may be wisdom in these wise, old words.

Grandma's concern was about weighting your options instead of driving yourself nuts and obsessing over just one man. Not investing all your time, energy, and emotions into any single man, no matter how much he's convinced you he's Mr. Fabulous can have its benefits. You simply don't have time to fret about how much time he's fretting about you if you're simultaneously dating Mr. Semi-Fabulous and Mr. Just-Okay, too.

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